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Midlife Riot
How to Make Divorce the Best F*cking Thing That Ever Happened to You
Get The Book For (Pretty-Damn-Close To) Free!
You Only Pay The Cost of The Book+ $1!
Get The Book For (Pretty-Darn-Close To) Free!
You only pay shipping & materials, + $1.
Part memoir, part manifesto, & a little part magic, this book is your backstage pass to dismantling decades of good-girl programming.
(And give you a way to create a beautiful, authentic life after divorce that actually works.)
Three transformations emerge after reading this book...
1. You Will Deprogram internalized Coding that shows up in relationships.
Whether you know it or not, you've been programmed. Trained up from the days you were watching The Brady Bunch and Bewitched, your brain has been a playground for patriarchal thought, and the roles you were programmed to play showed up in your marriage to keep you small, destroy intimacy, and defer your destiny to someone else's playbook.
Even your rebellion was scripted, your punk moves expected, written for you by a metasystem designed to keep you in your place. You never had a choice.
That stops now.
2. You Will Learn to Future Cast the life of your dreams.
You'll learn a process that will make you feel better now, and also help you create a future where you stop repeating the same damn mistakes. Where you stop giving away your power. Where you finally can fall into the love you deserve.
Start showing up as the Shero in your own story. No more playing small, no more defensive masks, no more feeling like you must have skipped this class in How To Be A Grown Up School.
You got this, and now is your chance to create the most authentic, amazing life you ever dreamed of -- with the added benefit of smashing the patriarchy while you're at it.
Yes, please.
3. You Will walk into your new life with confidence
Whether you're clueless about how you'll manage financially, hopeless about entering the dating pool again, or heartbroken to be living alone, you'll discover the confidence, ability and power to use your voice when it matters, make bold-ass decisions, and live a life that YOU create, rather than one that just happens to you.
You're on the precipice of the most exciting stage of your life, if you choose it.
It's time.
How this book will upgrade your mind
Three transformations emerge after reading this book...
1. You Will Deprogram internalized Codes that show up in relationships.
Whether you know it or not, you've been programmed. Trained up from the days you were watching The Brady Bunch and Bewitched, your brain has been a playground for patriarchal thought, and the roles you were programmed to play showed up in your marriage to keep you small, destroy intimacy, and defer your destiny to someone else's playbook.
Even your rebellion was scripted, your punk moves expected, written for you by a metasystem designed to keep you in your place. You never had a choice.
That stops now.
2. You Will Learn to Future Cast the life of your dreams.
You'll learn a process that will make you feel better now, but also help you create a future where you stop repeating the same damn mistakes. Where you stop giving away your power. Where you finally can fall into the love you deserve.
Start showing up as the Shero in your own story. No more playing small, no more defensive masks, no more feeling like you must have skipped this class in How To Be A Grown Up School.
You got this, and now is your chance to create the most authentic, amazing life you ever dreamed of -- with the added benefit of smashing the patriarchy while you're at it.
Yes, please.
3. You Will walk into your new life with confidence.
Whether you're clueless about how you'll manage financially, hopeless about entering the dating pool again, or heartbroken to be living alone, you'll discover the confidence, ability and power to use your voice when it matters, make bold-ass decisions, and live a life that YOU create, rather than one that just happens to you.
You're on the precipice of the most exciting stage of your life, if you choose it.
It's time.
What people say about working with Kerry:
“Kerry helps me re-frame situations in a positive way...I’ve gained so much confidence since she’s highlighted my abilities and changed my life!”
—Kay J.
Coaching Client
“I feel confident as I move forward on my own and I know I will use what I discovered through Kerry's guidance as I continue on my journey..”
—Emily F.
Coaching Client
"You have allowed me to awaken my soul, to open my eyes to opportunities, and you have inspired me to listen to my heart."
—Michelle P.
Coaching Client
About the Book
Watch This Video Interview with The Author
Why I'm Giving Midlife Riot Away at (almost) Cost...
(And no, it's not a gimmick.)
I am selling each book at the cost of printing, fulfillment, and shipping (within the US), plus just $1.
Why am I doing this?
I'm giving it away at almost cost because I know that when more women like you and me step into the fullness of our authentic power, we can literally change not just our lives, but also the world. I want this powerful book in your hands.
Why that one extra dollar?
Because as women, we already do a shit ton of unpaid labor. So as a philosophical point, I'm giving you this book at my cost, plus $1, to say screw the system that expects you and me to work for free.
It's sisterhood.
But really, there are two reasons I'm doing this.
First, I know what I'm talking about, and I'm not afraid to say that. As of this moment, I am putting the final touches on a doctoral dissertation about systems of dominance and identity, and I've already published two books on racial justice, which is intimately tied into patriarchy.
I'm a trained and certified coach, and I'm also trained in energetic healing. So I'm a trauma-informed, pastorally trained expert in the ways systems of dominance impact our neurobiology, our decisions, and the way we live out our lives.
I've used all of this information to navigate my own divorce and I'm creating the most gorgeous life ever out of the rubble. I'm not saying it doesn't suck. I'm saying a new, joyful life is possible. I know -- because I'm living it.
I want to show you how to do that, too.
I have found a new love that feels safe and life-giving. I have made bold moves and I've deconstructed the voices that kept me small. It's made me bolder in my life, my relationships, and my work.
I have made bold career moves and bad ass money moves that have helped me feel more confident, sovereign, and powerful in my life after divorce. On MY terms. No one else's.
I'm giving my book away for (almost) free because I don't want you to waste any more time living a life someone else scripted for you!
I've already done the legwork for you. Learn from my pain to create YOUR dream life.
My goal is to get this book into as many hands as possible so that we can all live the most authentic lives possible and in so-doing, make the world a better place for everyone.
The second reason I'm selling this book at (almost) cost is because I know by transforming your life, you may become interested in other things I share that will transform you even further. Midlife Riot is just the beginning of our work together!
That's all.
I know Midlife Riot will change your life, and I can't wait for you to read it.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
How long will it take for my book to arrive?
Your book will be shipped with care by real people as soon as possible. Most shipments will take about 10-15 days to arrive, give or take. International orders will take longer, obviously. Shipping within the continental United States is included in the price. International shipping and shipping to off continent will bear actual shipping costs. Please know we're doing our best to ship your order as quickly as possible!
Do you offer refunds?
Yes. We believe in this book so much that if you're unsatisfied (for any reason), you can send the book back within one-year, and get a 100% refund. No questions asked. Just contact me via the support details at the footer of this page. I'll share the return address, instructions, and once we receive your returned book, I'll ask you a quick question about it that will demonstrate you actually read it. Then I'll issue your refund in full.
If you're not happy, we're not happy!
What can I expect from this book?
This is not a divorce how-to book. It's not going to explicitly tell you how to hire a lawyer or what the divorce law is in your state. This is a book designed to challenge your internal constructed identity. Because of that, it will probably make you uncomfortable AF. It might piss you off. You might decide it's not for you. You might even think it's a book that states the obvious. I dare you to look a little deeper. Figure out how you contributed to your own divorce through a series of self-betrayals, tiny silences, and constructed patriarchal norms that have been coded into you from birth. Then, I dare you to do something about that shit, and create the life you were actually meant to live.
About Kerry Connelly
Meet The Person Who's Making Life After Divorce The Best Thing Yet.
Kerry Connelly, M.Div, CCLC is the author of four books (including this one). She is a trained coach with multiple certifications in Coaching, Emotional Intelligence, DISC Personality Assessments and Conflict Resolution.
As of this writing, she has just completed her dissertation for her Doctorate of Ministry, where her work explored the intersections of radical feminist theology, trauma, and systemic dominance. Entitled Taproot & Weed: A Neo-radical White Feminist Path to the Beloved Community, her work explores how White Feminism can play a responsible role in creating a more just world for everyone.
Kerry is also a Certified Angel Reiki Master Teacher and a Level II Usui Reiki Master. She has trained in mediumship under a number of established psychic mediums to strengthen her own intuition -- an experience that serves her well.
Kerry Connelly, M.Div, CCLC is the author of four books (including this one). She is a trained coach with multiple certifications in Coaching, Emotional Intelligence, DISC Personality Assessments and Conflict Resolution.
As of this writing, she has just completed her dissertation for her Doctorate of Ministry, where her work explored the intersections of radical feminist theology, trauma, and systemic dominance. Entitled Taproot & Weed: A Neo-radical White Feminist Path to the Beloved Community, her work explores how White Feminism can play a responsible role in creating a more just world for everyone.
Kerry is also a Certified Angel Reiki Master Teacher and a Level II Usui Reiki Master. She has trained in mediumship under a number of established psychic mediums to strengthen her own intuition -- an experience that serves her well.
Kerry has been divorced twice. Her first marriage was a mistake of youth -- she was 24 years old and didn't know how to say, "No." The marriage lasted only four years, but was worth its weight in gold as far as lessons learned. The second time around was for keeps...or so she thought. That marriage lasted twenty years, produced two amazing humans, and broke her heart when it ended. Still, Kerry knew that there was an amazing life on the other side of her divorce, and now she's all about creating that life for herself.
Now, Kerry is leaning into co-creating a life with the Divine that is counter-intuitive to everything the patriarchy wanted her to be. She is working in her talents, falling in love with her boyfriend of two years, and rediscovering her wildishness. She wants to show you how you can do that, too.
Kerry's Bold Guarantee
I am so confident my book will help you create the life of your dreams after your divorce ⸺ you can send the book back within one year and receive a 100% refund.
No questions asked!
Just contact me via the support details at the bottom of this page. You will be given a return address to send the book back to as well as instructions. I will personally see to it that you are refunded every penny⸺both the cost of the book and the shipping cost.
How's that for fair?
My mission is to help women deconstruct the patriarchal norms that have been encoded into them since birth so they can live a life that is sovereign, wildish, and free.
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